Spell for Attracting Healthy Relationships

• 2 small rose quartz crystals
• 1 white or pink candle
  
• 2 pieces of writing paper
• Fireproof dish

Instructions:
Light the candle and place one rose quartz on either side of it. Take a few
moments to quiet your mind.
On the first piece of paper, write down the qualities of friendships and/or
romantic relationships that have been unhealthy for you in your life. Don’t
use names or focus on specific people, but rather strive to articulate the
actions that have hurt you and/or the resulting feelings from these encounters.
Don’t dwell too heavily on any one incident or person, and don’t go into
more detail than necessary—the point is not to reinforce the negative
experiences, but simply to recognize and acknowledge what it is that you
wish to be free of in your life.
When you’re finished, tear the paper up into a few pieces, and ignite them
one at a time on the candle flame, being careful not to burn your fingers.
Drop them into the fireproof dish and let them burn out.
Now use the second piece of paper to write about what you wish to manifest
in your future relationship(s). Identify how you want to feel, how you want to
be treated, etc. If you’re unclear about what healthy relationships are actually
like, feel free to write down questions. Let the Universe know what you need
in terms of help in shifting these patterns in your life.
When you’re finished, fold the paper four times and place it in front of the
candle.
Place both crystals on top of the paper and say the following (or similar)
words:
“As I value myself, I attract others who do the same
So let it be.”
Leave the candle to burn out on its own.
Bury the ashes of the burned paper or scatter them over the Earth.
Keep the folded paper in your journal, Book of Shadows, or somewhere else
where you can refer back to it as a “checklist” over the coming weeks and
months, as new people make their way into your life.
If you like, carry the crystals with you in a purse or pocket when you go out.