Romų meilės užkalbėjimas

Daugybė romų džiaugėsi ilgalaikės meilės vaisiais, sakydamos šį užkalbėjimą, kol dubenyje maišydavo rugius ir kvepiančiuosius pipirus, kuriais vėliau dalindavosi su savo simpatijos objektu. Maišydamos šį meilę žadinantį maistą, tarkite:

Žemės rugiai, ugnies pipirai, 

Suvalgyti tikrai uždegs aistrą. 

Patiekite tam, kurio meilės trokštu, 

Ir jo širdį aš pavergsiu!

Meilės eleksyras

Eliksyrai yra labai paprasti nuovirai, gaminami į stiklinę vandens bent septynioms valandoms įdedant kristalą arba brangakmenį. Išimkite akmenį ir išgerkite „kristalizuotą vandenį“. Vanduo dabar turės akmens vibracinę energiją – pačią kristalo esmę.

Į stiklinę vandens įdėkite: karneolį, granatą, neapdirbtą rubiną, raudonąjį koralą, raudonąjį nefritą, jaspį, raudonąjį sardoniksą, kupritą, avantiūriną arba raudonąjį kalcitą. Galite juos maišyti ir derinti, ir atminkite – jei turite tik neapdirbtą rubiną ir mažą gabalėlį jaspio, tebūnie – tai vis tiek yra didžiulis meilės kiekis viename inde!

Deivės kūno palaiminimo balzamas

Jūsų kūnas meilės akto metu sulauks daug dėmesio, todėl išankstinis jūsų pačių rūpestis pašventins jūsų kūno šventyklą. Paimkite vieną stiklinę natūralaus bičių vaško, susmulkinkite jį ir sudėkite į indą virš garų vonelės (dvigubą puodą). Kaitinkite labai lėtai ir atsargiai. Įpilkite 1/4 stiklinės sezamų aliejaus ir maišykite mediniu šaukštu, kol vaškas ištirps ir susimaišys su aliejumi. Leiskite mišiniui atvėsti iki kūno temperatūros ir įlašinkite:

• 8 lašus sandalmedžio aliejaus

• 5 lašus citrinų aliejaus

• 2 lašus rožių aliejaus

Patepkite save šiuo aliejumi: užtepkite šiek tiek ant piršto galiuko ir priglauskite prie širdies, tada sukamaisiais judesiais į išorę tepkite toliau, kol visas jūsų kūnas bus visiškai palaimintas.

Malonumo iššaukimas

Pasirinkite puoselėti visą savo juslinę galią. Jūs spinduliuosite aistrą ir jausite nenumaldomą trauką savo mylimajam. Atlikite šį ritualą artimiausios pilnaties metu. Pasiruoškite eterinių aliejų, žvakių ir savo mėgstamą gėrimą. Pradėkite nuo palaimingos vonios vandenyje, kvepiančiame aliejais. Atsisėskite tamsiame kambaryje. Pakelkite puodelį jazminų arbatos, taurę vyno ar bet kokį kitą savo ypatingą gėrimą ir garsiai ištarkite šį užkalbėjimą:

Dabar aš pažadinu savyje Deivę. 

Atsiduodu meilės galiai. 

Šiąnakt savo ugnimi įkaitinsiu naktį.

Geriančią šią taurę, mane užlieja gyvybė. 

Aš esu gyva! Aš esu meilė! Tebūnie taip.

Twin Blooms Love Attracting Spell

Perform this spell on a Friday, during a full moon or waxing lunar phase.
You will need:

• two of any of these flowers—the choice is yours: red or purple rose, purple or pink hyacinth, pink or purple zinnia. Keep enough stem to match the length of your candle.
• two small vases or glasses
• water

two pink taper candles, the sort that melts (not drip-less)
a large, heat-proof plate
your athame or a thin nail
Carve your name on one of the pink candles using your athame or a thin nail.
Carve “my new love” into the other candle. Burn the bottoms of the candles,
so they stick to the place, leaving an inch of space between them. Choose one
of the flowers to represent you, and place it in one of the vases. Fill with
water and place behind the candle designating yourself. Do the same for the
other flower, vase, and candle.
Light the candles, and say:
“Wherever I go, wherever I roam,
I will find the one whose heart
I can call my home.”
Allow the candles to burn down, melting into each other. Keep the flowers on
your altar for five days, then leave them at the field or forest’s edge.

Endless Heart Love Spell

Perform this spell on a full moon.
You will need:

• rose quartz shaped like a heart (easily found in crystal shops and
• online)
• rosewater
• organic rose essential oil
• dried rose petals
• a pink floating candle
• a glass bowl
• water

Roses contain powerful magic; they are linked to the faerie world, the
underworld, Heaven, and the divine. They can heal our spirits and our souls
with their aroma and medicine. If you find that your heart has been hurt too
many times, you may no longer believe that love is possible for you. This
spell will help you work toward healing, and toward believing that you, too,
deserve love and care.
Place the rose quartz heart at the bottom of the bowl, then add the dried rose
petals. Fill the bowl halfway with water. Add five drops of rosewater to the
bowl and five drops of rose essential oil. Place the floating candle on the
surface of the water and light it. Take some time to relax your mind and
breathe deeply.
Now, imagine your heart as the rose quartz heart, deep in a pool. Imagine
gazing up peacefully at the surface of the water. You are able to breathe, and
you are safe. Notice the candle’s light glowing on the water’s surface. It may
seem far away but is very close. You could reach the surface if you just try.
When you are ready, say:
“Goddess, thank you for your mercy,
and for allowing me to see,
that love is possible, even for me.”
Carry the quartz heart with you, or place it beneath your pillow to continue to
benefit from its healing properties.

A Candle Blessing to Find True Love

You will need:

• a red or pink candle (your preference)
• a blue candle (for the truth)
• a purple candle (for intuition)
• a white candle (for spiritual health)
• a brown candle (to remain grounded and humble)
• an orange candle (for success and joy)
• your athame, knife, or a nail
• a piece of rose quartz

With your athame, knife, or a nail (these work wonderfully to inscribe
candles), carve your name into the red or pink candle. On the other side of the
candle, carve “my true love.” Set this candle in the center; you will make a
semicircle around the candle, with the brown candle in the center of the
candle and toward the Northern direction of your altar.
Set the other candles as such, around your candle in this order: blue, purple,
brown, white, and orange. First, light your candle (the red or the pink one)
and say:
“I dare to admit that I want to be ready and open for true love to come into
my life, and stay.”
Next, light the blue candle, and say:
“I dare to be honest with myself, and with my true love.”
Next, light the purple candle, and say:
“I dare to listen to my intuition when it comes to all things, and with finding
my true love.”
Next, light the brown candle, and say:
“I ask the Earth to keep me grounded during this journey, as well as humble
and kind.”
Next, light the white candle, and say:
“I make a pact with myself to keep my spirit clean of negative thoughts and
energy.”
Next, light the orange candle, and say:
“I dare to believe in the possibility that true love may successfully exist in my
life, and in my heart.”
Now sit with the rose quartz, and breathe deeply, spine straight, mind open
and calm. Imagine small moments of interaction with true love — honest
laughter, physical touch, a feeling of safety and healing, and a thrill of the
heart when your eyes see the person you love. Remain this way for as long as
you are comfortable. Set the quartz in front of your candle and allow the
candles to burn down.

Meilės apeiga (Rusų magija)

Ši apeiga daroma cerkvėje. Jokios kitos konfesijos maldos namai jos nepakeis.

Sužinoti kada tuoks jaunuosius. Kai kunigas pradės vesti jaunuosius aplink altorių, pradėti kalbėti:

Kaip dievas judu jungia, taip ir aš būsiu sujungtas su (vardas). Kaip jūs vienas kitą mylite, taip ir mane (vardas) mylės. Vardan dievo tėvo ir sūnaus ir šventosios dvasios. Amen.

Grįžti namo ir uždegti 3 žvakes dubenėlyje su druska. Po to ta druska apiberti savo namų kampus.

 

Moonstone Charm for Rekindling Passion

• 1 moonstone necklace
  
• Red candle

Instructions:
Light the candle.
Hold the moonstone necklace in your hands and take a moment to remember
times when you felt passionate about your partner, and times when your
partner demonstrated the same feelings toward you.
Visualize a new encounter with your partner that rekindles these energies.
If there is a single stone in the necklace, concentrate on holding that single
stone as you visualize the past and future passion in your relationship. If the
necklace has more than one moonstone, repeat the process with each one.
When you have fully charged your necklace with passionate energies, put it
on, close your eyes, breathe deeply, and allow yourself to enjoy the
anticipation of manifesting your desires on the physical plane.
Gently extinguish the candle.
Wear the necklace on your next date or other quality time with your partner.

Spell for Attracting Healthy Relationships

• 2 small rose quartz crystals
• 1 white or pink candle
  
• 2 pieces of writing paper
• Fireproof dish

Instructions:
Light the candle and place one rose quartz on either side of it. Take a few
moments to quiet your mind.
On the first piece of paper, write down the qualities of friendships and/or
romantic relationships that have been unhealthy for you in your life. Don’t
use names or focus on specific people, but rather strive to articulate the
actions that have hurt you and/or the resulting feelings from these encounters.
Don’t dwell too heavily on any one incident or person, and don’t go into
more detail than necessary—the point is not to reinforce the negative
experiences, but simply to recognize and acknowledge what it is that you
wish to be free of in your life.
When you’re finished, tear the paper up into a few pieces, and ignite them
one at a time on the candle flame, being careful not to burn your fingers.
Drop them into the fireproof dish and let them burn out.
Now use the second piece of paper to write about what you wish to manifest
in your future relationship(s). Identify how you want to feel, how you want to
be treated, etc. If you’re unclear about what healthy relationships are actually
like, feel free to write down questions. Let the Universe know what you need
in terms of help in shifting these patterns in your life.
When you’re finished, fold the paper four times and place it in front of the
candle.
Place both crystals on top of the paper and say the following (or similar)
words:
“As I value myself, I attract others who do the same
So let it be.”
Leave the candle to burn out on its own.
Bury the ashes of the burned paper or scatter them over the Earth.
Keep the folded paper in your journal, Book of Shadows, or somewhere else
where you can refer back to it as a “checklist” over the coming weeks and
months, as new people make their way into your life.
If you like, carry the crystals with you in a purse or pocket when you go out.

Sun and Moon Relationship Longevity Spell

• 1 sprig rosemary
• Ceremonial cup or goblet (preferably purchased together or
• significant in some way to the couple) filled with purified water
  
• Small gold candle
• Small silver candle

Instructions:
Before the ritual, place the candles and the cup or goblet of water on the altar.
Place the rosemary sprig next to the chalice.
Sit across from one another and hold hands. Take three deep breaths together.
Relax and feel the warmth of each other’s energy and love.
When ready, each of you should light one of the candles. The gold
symbolizes the sun and the silver is for the moon.
Together hold the rosemary sprig and place it in the water. Swirl it in the cup
clockwise three times. While swirling the rosemary repeat the following (or
similar) words in unison:
“May our love be true and strong, our lives together long.”
Both people should take a sip from the cup or goblet to solidify their desire.
Take turns sharing reasons why you decided to commit to your partner. The
person speaking should hold the rosemary sprig. Take a sip of the water after
each turn, alternating until you have finished the cup.
At the end of the ritual, gently extinguish the candles and give one another a
warm embracing hug.

Ignite Your Love Life Spell

• Heat-proof bowl
• 14 large dried hibiscus leaves (or very large petals)
  
• Red spell candle
• Pink spell candle
• Journal or writing paper

Instructions:
Place the red candle and the pink candle on either side of the small dish and
light each one.
Take a moment to visualize a warm light swirling in pink and red around you.
This is the light of attracting love and courage, strength and friendship—key
qualities in any relationship.
Now make a list of 14 qualities and characteristics that you would like to
attract in a partner. Divide the list up so that 7 of the qualities are more
associated with the color red (passion, lust, courage, energy, etc.), and 7 are
more related to pink (friendship, love, compassion, partnership, etc.). Don’t
overthink this, though, or try for perfect symmetry—just go with your gut.
Choose a quality from the “red” list, and then carefully ignite a dried hibiscus
leaf using the red candle. Drop the leaf into the dish and say, “I now bring a
lover with [name the quality].”
Now do the same with the “pink” list, only say “partner” in place of “lover”
when you drop the ignited leaf.
Continue to alternate between the red and pink candles, placing each leaf or
petal in the dish, until you have ignited each leaf.
Allow the hibiscus to smolder until it goes out on its own, and allow the
candles to burn out on their own.
When the ashes and bowl have cooled completely, bury the ashes in your
yard.

Sachet for Opening Your Heart to Love

• Pink candle
• Elecampane flowers
  
• Pink cloth
• Needle and pink thread

Instructions:
Place the elecampane flowers, cloth, needle, and thread on your table or altar.
Take some time to sit quietly and breathe deeply.
As you breathe in, imagine a bright white light filling your body.
As you exhale, imagine all stress, tension and any emotional pain leaving
your body, allowing more and more space for the light from the next inhale to
come in.
Light the candle, focusing your intention on allowing love to enter your life.
Place the flowers on the cloth and fold it into a neat bundle or sachet.
Using the needle and pink thread, sew the cloth closed along the edges and
sides.
As you sew, see each stitch representing the possibility of love entering and
growing in your life. There is an endless number of stitches possible, just like
there is endless potential in your life (and in yourself) for love.
When you have finished sewing, place the sachet in front of the candle while
saying the following (or similar) words:
“Spirit of elecampane, open my heart.
Release all pain and grant me fresh start.
So let it be.”
Leave the candle to burn out on its own.
Carry the sachet with you in your purse, or keep it in a space where you will
see it often and be reminded to keep your heart open to new love.

Releasing Negative Energy from an Ended Relationship

• 1 light blue or violet candle
• 1 cup hot chamomile tea
  
• Small strip of paper
• Journal or writing paper (optional)
• Fire-proof dish

Instructions:
Light the candle and prepare the tea.
If necessary, do some journaling about the feelings and thoughts you wish to
release.
You can begin drinking the tea as you write.
When you feel you’ve arrived at a point of clarity, write your name and the
other person’s name on the strip of paper.
Hold the mug of tea in both hands and breathe in while saying to yourself,
“My mind is clear.”
On the exhale, visualize the all unwanted energy leaving your spirit and
mind. You may want to visualize your thoughts and feelings about the
relationship as a dark grey cloud and blow the cloud away.
Now set the mug down and take the strip of paper in your dominant hand.
Ignite it with the candle flame and drop it into the fire-proof dish to burn out.
As you do so, say out loud, “I am letting my relationship with [name of
person] go now.”
Continue to sip your tea until it’s finished, and then gently extinguish the
candle.
Scatter the ashes from the strip of paper onto the Earth or into a running
stream.

Spell for Welcoming the Start of a Relationship

•  3 sprigs of basil
• 1 pink ribbon
  
• Small vase
• Cup of water

Instructions:
Visualize yourself confident and at ease around the person with whom you
are hoping to start a relationship. Imagine the two of you in as much detail as
possible, sitting side by side in a sunny location.
Breathe deeply and summon a feeling of peace and ease around this person.
Pour water from the cup into the vase.
Now take one sprig of basil and place it into the vase and say, “My authentic
self shines through in this new connection.”
Place the second sprig of basil in the vase and say, “My authentic self
resonates with the authentic self of the one I love.”
Place the final sprig of basil in the vase and say, “This new connection serves
the highest good of all involved.”
Now, wrap the pink ribbon around the three sprigs of basil.
Spend a few moments imagining how you want to feel in your next
relationship, but keep the focus on yourself, rather than on the person you’re
hoping to be with.
Hold the vase in your hands and say, “I welcome the start of this new
relationship, for the good of all and harm to none.”
Make sure the vase has plenty of fresh water each day.
When the sprigs begin to droop or turn brown, take them outside and scatter
them over the Earth.

Bringing Reconciliation to an Established Relationship

•  1 white candle
• 1 envelope
• Red pen
  
• Several small slips of paper
• 3 fresh basil leaves

Instructions:
Light the white candle, and take a moment to meditate on the positive
qualities of your relationship.
Think about times that have been harmonious and full of ease. What details
or specific feelings do you recall about those peaceful moments? What did
you love the most about these times? What qualities did these times bring out
in your partner that you most admire?
Using the red pen and slips of paper, write down as many details, impressions
or qualities of those memories as you can.
Place them one at a time in the envelope.
When you’re finished, place three basil leaves inside the envelope, and lick
and seal it.
Hold the envelope in between your hands and say the following (or similar)
words:
“My love for you is the sum of all of this goodness and more.
Harmony between us is restored.”
Place the envelope near the candle and allow the candle to burn out on its
own.
Then keep the envelope in a visible place where it will remind you of the
positive characteristics and qualities of your lover.
If possible, this spell can be modified to include your partner so that you can
do it together. This is especially ideal for couples who live together.
Each of you should write several qualities that you find important and special
in the other person and place the slips of paper into the envelope.
Repeat the words of the spell together, then place the envelope where you
both can see it.

Attracting Love

•  1 red candle
• Flower petals (rose petals are ideal, but any flower petal, fresh or dried, will
  do)
• Jasmine oil, diluted with carrier oil for use on skin
  
• 1 piece of garnet, rose quartz, moonstone, or sapphire
• Hibiscus tea

Instructions:
First, prepare the tea. Be sure to cover while steeping as you proceed with the spell.
Put a few drops of the oil on the pulse points on your wrists collar bone, and temples,
and then anoint the candle. Place the stone next to the candle, and create a triangle
around the two with the flower petals so that the candle and stone are at the
triangle’s center.
Concentrate on the thrilling feeling of discovering new love.
When you feel ready, say I bring bright love into my life, for the good of all and harm
to none. Light the candle, and say So let it be.*
Drink the hibiscus tea, and let the candle burn out on its own. Carry the stone with
you when you go out.
*If you work with deities, this is a good spell to invoke the help of the Goddess,
and/or a particular aspect of the Goddess associated with love, such as Aphrodite
(Greek) or Aine (Irish). You can use the invocation provided above, or create your
own. Do this before lighting the candle.

Bringing Love

• 3 pink candles
• 1 red candle
  
• Ginger oil
• Rose quartz

Rub ginger oil into the red candle. Place the pink candles on the altar in a
triangle, with one to the North, one to the East, and one to the West. Place the
red candle in the center of the triangle. Light the pink candles, then hold the
rose quartz in both hands with your eyes closed.
Visualize the feeling of being incredibly, unconditionally loved, allowing the
feeling to grow as you strengthen your focus. When you’re ready, open your
eyes, and place the rose quartz just above the North pink candle. State your
intention, and light the red candle, visualizing your personal power streaming
through the flame and up into the Universe.

Healing Love Spell

• 1 pink or white candle
• Amber, frankincense, copal, or Nag Champa incense
• 2 teaspoons dried hibiscus flower
  
• 2 teaspoons elecampane root

Instructions:
Light the incense.
Take a few moments to breathe deeply with your eyes closed, focusing on what
it feels like to have a sense of peace and feeling loved.
You may not be feeling that way lately, obviously, but you can allow yourself to
trust that you will experience it again. This spell is for speeding up the time it
will take to get there.
When you feel ready, sprinkle the elecampane in a clockwise circle around the
candle, saying the following words (or create your own affirmation):
“I heal the energy of this loss within myself, and release it to be transformed into
positive energy.” (You can substitute “conflict” for “loss” if this is for a conflict
in an existing relationship.)
Then do the same with the hibiscus flowers while saying:
“I raise my vibration to the level of highest love.”
Light the candle, and say “So let it be.”
Spend a few moments gazing softly at the flame.
Leave the candle to burn all the way down, and let go of any thoughts of the
issue for as long as you can.

Steamy Love Attraction Spell

• 1 red spell candle
• Love Energy Oil for anointing (5 drops rose, 3 drops patchouli, 2 drops ylang ylang, 2 drops vetiver)
• Single vials of rose, patchouli, ylang ylang and vetiver for
  
  diffusing (optional)
• 1 cup of filtered water
• Tea, kettle or small sauce pan
• Cauldron, or other non-metallic bowl not used for food
• Pinch of dried lavender, patchouli, and/or hibiscus

Instructions:
Take a few moments to call up memories and feelings of well-being,
excitement, and physical attraction. How do you feel when you’re caught up
in the energy of a passionate love affair? Concentrate on that delightful thrill
as you anoint your wrists, pulse points, and third eye with the oil.
Hold the cup of water in your hands and charge it with the energy of love and
passion.
Next, pour the water into the kettle or pan and put it on the stove to boil.
(Don’t use a microwave unless you absolutely have to.)
While the water heats, anoint the candle and sprinkle the herbs in a circle
around its base.
Continuing to visualize your goal, light the candle and say these (or your
own) words:
“Love and passion,
in my own fashion,
I call to me
through power of attraction.”
When the water is just about to boil, take it off the heat. Then place 1-2 drops
each of the single essential oils (or 6-8 drops of the full Love Energy blend)
in the cauldron or bowl.
Set it on your altar or other heat-resistant work space.
Gently pour the water over the oil, while repeating the words above and then
ending with “So let it be.”
Now step back a bit from the cauldron, as the scent of the volatile oils will be
quite strong at first.
Visualize your personal power carried on the steam as it rises up and crosses
into the non-physical planes of the Universe.
Wait until the water has cooled and most of the scent has evaporated before
pouring it out.
Allow the candle to burn all the way down on its own. The faster it burns, the
sooner your love experience will come into your life!